I have a few gatherings coming up, so in order to avoid stress we girls at goop have put together a plan to make entertaining fun and stress-free. Also, I’m super proud of our collaboration with iomoi this week, as it’s my New Year’s resolution to journal every day. Our beautiful leather journal can be personalized when you order.
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These are the tips and tricks we try to abide by while entertaining over the holidays to keep the crazy to a minimum. We use two of our holiday meals, Hanukkah Dinner and Christmas Breakfast, as a guide, explaining how we would prepare for each starting a week out.
First tip: For a special occasion, it's nice to have your menu designed and printed out for you to display on the table. We asked our bespoke stationery friends over at Romeo + Jules to set ours into the beautiful menus below.
A Week Before
1.Finalize your guest list: If you’re having anyone other than immediate family, it helps to know exactly who’s coming at this point so you can start planning.
2.Playlist: Now’s a good time, before the storm, to choose your tunes.
1.Plan the Table: If you’re using linens, make sure they’re clean and pressed. Or if you’d rather skip all the posh stuff, roll up your napkins and tie them in a piece of twine, which you can also tie nametags to. Make sure wine glasses are intact, there are enough seats for everyone coming, what your centerpiece will be (if any) and so forth.
Figure out which cutlery and dishware you’re going to use for the occasion (if you have more than one option) and set them aside so you won’t have to wash them last minute.
If you have some silver from your grandmother or your wedding and it’s been sitting in a drawer for the past year, now’s a good time to polish.
We’re obsessed with these disposable linen napkins, which you can also wash and re-use. For a more casual dinner, and a fun way to use these, put two rolls in the middle of the table in paper towel holders and let people rip off napkins as needed.
As simple as it sounds, arranging short bouquets brings a lot to the table (literally) without getting in the way of conversation. Check out our full arranging tips here.
Two Days Before
1.Finalize your menu: You probably have a pretty good idea of what you will want to make before this, but two days before the event, your menu should be set so you can start planning your shopping.
2.Write down every ingredient you’ll need for each course, crossing out everything you already have so you know exactly what you need to get.
3.Order: I rely on grocery delivery to make my shopping easier and keep the running around to a minimum. Ocado in the UK is great, and if you’re in the States, check out Fresh Direct. It's also a good idea to figure out now which items you'll have to get from a specialty store, as you don't want to be standing in the middle of Whole Foods on Christmas Eve realizing they don't in fact carry Herbs de Provence salt. (Nightmare).
4.Get the Wine: Now that you know what you’re cooking, you can buy your wine. Get some pairing tips here.
1.Shop: For anything that's not being delivered, now's the time to get it. Wash all your veggies and marinate any meat or fish that needs it. Flowers: It's best to pick up the flowers for your table the day before, giving them a day to open up and look their best.
2.Divide & Conquer:
Organize all the ingredients for each course in one place. For example, for the Hanukkah Dinner latkes, place the egg, sour cream or crème fraiche and smoked salmon on the same shelf in the fridge.
Then, place the apple, potato and matzo meal together in your pantry. This way when you start to make the latkes the day of, you can just grab and go.
1.Eat Out/Order Pizza: It’s best to eat a quick dinner with no clean-up to keep your kitchen and table free for prep.
2.Set Your Table: Lay your tablecloth, linens, wine glasses, etc.
The Napkin Situation: We've spent a good amount of time trying to fold dinner napkins. Then we found these. Twine works wonders also.
3.Prepare After-Dinner Course: While our menus don't include homemade dessert, we usually serve a cheese course, fresh fruit or chocolate post-meal. Prepare whatever you'll serve now, so you won't be stuck in the kitchen after the meal is through and everyone else is merrymaking.
4.Make Ahead: If there’s anything you can make now, do it.
For Hanukkah Dinner:
Make the Salsa Verde and pop it in the fridge. Tomorrow when the fish is cooked, all you’ll have to do is transfer the sauce to its serving dish.
For Christmas Breakfast:
Prepare the Turkey Sausage patties up until the point where you’d cook them. On the day of, you can take the formed patties out of the fridge and sauté.
Wine: Now's a good time to open up your red and let it breathe. Decanting is a nice touch, but not nessesary.
1 hour before: Lay out some nibbles, like olives, nuts or small bites for guests to snack on as soon as they arrive. Get inspired here.
Ambiance: Dim the lights. Start your playlist. Light the fireplace if you have one. And definitely light a candle, which sets a welcoming tone and makes the house smell great. The holiday scents from Linnea's Lights are pretty insane.
20 minutes before: Prepare the Whole Roasted Fish, and get it in the oven. Later, while guests are snacking on the nibbles and latkes, you can ask a friend to help you take it out of the oven.
As first guests arrive: Pour drinks and bring out latkes.
10 minutes later: Take fish out of the oven. Serve everything.
Quick Side Note...
Left: I was working in Dubai yesterday and got to go to the top of the Burj Khalifa (I call it the Wiz Khalifa). This pic is taken in the bathroom of the Chairman's Suite at the very, very top of the building. Tom Cruise is the only person who's ever showered in here while he was filming Mission Impossible. Middle: I found these amazing Erickson Beamon earrings. Obsessed. Right: I borrowed this sick Valentino jumpsuit for a presentation.
My partner, Tracy Anderson, is about to open up a new gym in Brentwood, LA. It's going to be pretty state of the art, and goop is the first to know. She will be hosting two pre-tour lecture sessions, one on Sunday, December 9th at 4pm and the other on Tuesday, December 11th at 7pm. Click here to check it out. You can also email or call 818-762-3133 to sign up for a spot.
As first guests arrive: Pour drinks and bring out biscuits.
10 minutes later: Take the frittata out of the oven and serve with sausage patties.
Nora Ephron was the best dinner party hostess.
Not only was she an unbelievable home cook who put together meals with ease and grace to spare, she was an amazing conversationalist who could really engage the table. During dinners, she’d announce a topic for the evening like, “Affair to Remember versus A Dirty Dozen,” (cue that great dinner scene from Sleepless in Seattle). For those of us who are not Nora Ephron, here are some great ways to keep the conversation going throughout the night, without the dreaded small talk.
Posing a Question
The best questions to ask your guests to get discussion flowing are ones that everyone can relate to and find interesting to talk and hear about. Here are some examples:
For when you can’t think of something yourself, these little boxes are awesome. The questions cards fuel interesting discussion and get everyone involved. They come in all sorts of themes, like Family, Girls Night, Dinner Party and so on.
What to Wear...
...when you’re entertaining at home.
Left & Center: A jersey dress that drapes right can look elegant but is light and cool enough to sustain several trips in and out of the kitchen. We like T by Alexander Wang’s version and this festive Carven dress (which I recently bought). Both are on sale!
Right: Another fun alternative is this neoprene dress by T by Alexander Wang, which will keep its shape no matter what you do.
P.S. I've gotten really into shopping on Ssense, where we found all these great pieces.
The trouser and loose t-shirt combo is always a good one, as it's comfortable yet put together. Found these vermillion wool pants from Theory and these pink crepe trousers from J.Crew. Pair them with a vintage cotton tee like the ones shown from J.Crew.