Don't ignore this red flag...

We all know that one person—and sometimes, we’ve been that person—who can’t seem to let go of an ex. You really truly feel like there’s something going for you here.

But one, or both, of you can’t seem to make up your mind. Should you keep dating? What if he/she has changed this time around? Do you really want to cut this person out of your life?

In short, what should a Catholic do with an on-again off-again type of relationship?

On-again off-again romances are major a red flag.

If you’re dating just for the fun of it and with absolutely no goal in mind whatsoever, hot/cold relationships would not merit a second glance. But, I would bet a million dollars that’s not how you are approaching the dating world!

You, as a Catholic dater, are probably looking toward marriage and a family in the future.

And an on-off-again relationship is poison to this goal...

If one or both of you can’t commit to either date or break up, how do you expect to commit to staying married?

It’s not a worthwhile pursuit toward marriage, no matter how much promise a relationship shows during the on-again phase.

Consistency and commitment are key to a good marriage, and if those are lacking, it’s time to let go.

Kateri Bean

Content Manager

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