If You’re Flabbergasted By Women Whose Men Adore Them And Will Do Anything For Them, Here’s How To Make This YOUR Reality

		Featured Expert: Jason Stedman

You’d love a man who feels like the luckiest guy on Earth just to be with you—and who is not afraid to shout it from the rooftops.

But you wonder if you’re asking for too much or if you’re simply not the kind of woman to be adored like this. Here’s the real problem: He may be physically attracted to you, but you’re not triggering that EMOTIONAL attraction in him. Here’s how to do this and become the kind of woman men bend over backwards for:

Let’s talk a moment about THAT woman.

The one who is far from perfect yet has a man at her feet.

The one who doesn’t even read self-help books, or worry about what comes out of her mouth. The one who makes plans without her partner—and without flinching.

She doesn’t analyze her relationship. She won’t rehash what she said in her head or rehearse what she’ll tell him next.

She doesn’t spend her time coming up with thoughtful ways to surprise her beau. She might even be a lousy cook.

Yet her man is hooked…and he lets the world know about it.

If it’s not the Facebook posts where he’s declaring his worship of her for the most mundane things she does, he’s cooking up a romantic weekend away. At her favorite spot.

Yes, you look upon this woman with a mixture of disgust and desire. You want THAT, but you feel utterly powerless to have it.

Your Experience Has Been The Painful Opposite

If there were prizes given out for “women who give their men too much,” you’d win.

The embarrassing thing is that you’ve done it for men you know don’t even deserve it.

Liars, slackers, cheaters, narcissists. No matter whom you’re with, they don’t prioritize you. Your needs don’t count. And they don’t seem to mind losing you. Not one of them appears terribly excited to be with you. Or, if they did, the honeymoon was very short lived.

You wonder if maybe you’re asking for too much. If perhaps these women have something you don’t.

Maybe they inspire adoration from men in a way you can’t. You’ve never had a guy feeding you with love, time, and attention.

This kind of relationship dynamic is like a foreign language to you. You just don’t get it. You want it, but you have no idea how it even works.

The Key To Understanding Why You Haven’t Been Adored (Yet)

If you scratch your head wondering how some women have men who put them first and go out of their way to please them, you’re probably trying to reason through your predicament—and this never works.

Let me explain.

If you haven’t found a relationship where a man makes YOU the center of his world—and organizes himself around YOU—then you’ve likely done one of three things:

1. Analyze the “psychology” of your pattern. In other words, you’ve tried to dig into what could have caused your issues—and you’ve examined factors such as your childhood and early relationships.
2. Made it all about him and what he wants. You want him to convince him that he should love you. So you do him favors, act or dress in a seductive manner, act like his “therapist” giving him advice, cook and clean for him, rearrange your schedule and life so you never have to say “no” to him, etc.
3. Ruminate on what’s wrong with YOU. You figure the reason you don’t yet have the kind of relationship other women have is because there’s something wrong with you. You have the wrong personality, you don’t know how to flirt, you don’t know how to relax around men, you’re too this or not enough of that.

Whatever your reasoning for why you are never adored by a man in the ways you want to be, if you’re trying to analyze and figure out why you have this problem, you’re essentially on a dead-end street.

The Critical Shift: From a Convincer and Analyzer to a Confident, Amazing, IRRESISTIBLE Woman

There are not enough hours to figure out why your patterns developed. What’s more, even though it may feel productive to analyze, this only serves to promote a narrative of victimhood.

Looking at the past keeps you stuck in a place you have no control over.

And trying to “convince” a man of anything just sets it up so that he naturally wants to “resist” you. That’s just the nature of human behavior.

Here’s a good example: Have you ever talked to someone who wants to sell, buy, or get something from you?

They usually start out by being nice or complimentary to you. You might sense that something is a little off, but the conversation feels fine until all of a sudden you get that weird vibe from them when you realize what’s going on.

And then it hits you… “This person is just trying to convince me to do something for them”…

Right at that moment, your whole perspective on the conversation and the other person changes – including the way you see their compliments, voice tone, and manner.

All you can hear is how they’re trying to talk you into something, and it makes your entire body tense up.

The more you try to “show him” (convince him) you’re amazing, the more he sees you as “needy” when it’s the furthest thing from the truth.

And ruminating on what you’re doing or saying wrong is lowering your confidence and lowering your status in his eyes.

That’s not attractive, either.

So what is?

The secret to becoming THAT woman is changing how you show up in life and in your relationships.

Once you change the way you show up, the people you attract change. And the BEHAVIORS you attract change.

This is why a man can be “commitment phobic” with you and then go on to marry another woman in short order. Or why when a woman “wakes up” and starts putting herself first, her man gets nervous and suddenly starts surprising her with things she likes.

You cannot control the way you’ve shown up in the past, but you can start—TODAY—to change the way you approach relationships NOW.

Inspire His Emotional Attraction and Finally Feel Adored

You do not have to keep repeating your negative patterns in love. But having a totally different experience starts with recognizing that a good man won’t EVER bend over backwards for you when you’re trying too hard to make it all about him, are being too self-critical, or are getting lost in analysis paralysis about why your relationships fall short.

Once you learn to show up differently, different men and different behaviors enter your orbit.

Showing up differently means putting something in motion that I call Emotional Attraction.

Emotional attraction is different from regular, physical attraction, which is all about what you look like. Physical attraction is when you’re a guy’s “type”. It’s about what you wear and how you carry yourself.

It’s about him seeing you and thinking, “I want to date / sleep with her.”

That may be as far as things go, too. He may act all into you and then ghost you after a few dates.

Emotional attraction is more intense and lasting than physical attraction – it’s what sets you apart in a man’s mind and lets him see you as the kind of woman he can really fall for.

If you’ve had relationships that have been dead-ends or where your guy became distant and uncertain about wanting to be with you, this is usually why.

He wasn’t feeling that emotional attraction that keeps him engaged and knowing you’re the only one for him.

It’s what makes him want to be with you and ONLY you.

It’s what makes him want to shower you with adoration, gifts, and proclamations of love. It’s what makes him want to shout from the rooftops that he’s found the most amazing woman and he wants the whole world to know how lucky he is.

In my program, Natural and Lasting Attraction, you’ll learn all about Emotional Attraction. You’ll learn what it is, how you know if a man “feels it” for you, and what you need to do (or avoid doing) in order to spark that deep, lasting attraction that makes him want to do ANYTHING to have you.

You’ll learn the single most powerful way to really “get” to a man and lodge yourself in his mind so thoughts of you keep popping up, and actually interrupt his day!

You’ll also learn the counterintuitive ways to be irresistible—and by this I mean you’d normally think these behaviors would turn a man OFF or make him think you’re not interested, but they’re WILDLY emotionally attractive to the right man.

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When it comes to success in love and life, you have to know how to show up.

If you show up acting like you don’t matter, or that your needs don’t matter, or that you don’t think you deserve love, well, you’re going to have a tough time.

If you show up confident and relaxed because you know EXACTLY what you want and how to go about having it, then you’re going to be THAT woman who seems to “effortlessly” have amazing relationships.

Let me show you how to be that confident and relaxed woman who knows all about emotional attraction and how to inspire her man to “feel it” for her.

Jason

P.S.Over the years I’ve noticed there are consistent things that create emotional attraction in a man. In my program, Natural and Lasting Attraction, you’ll learn the 6 keys to creating that kind of emotional attraction, so he sees you as the woman of his dreams. Learn more here: