You didn't plan to be this busy. And yet: three weddings, two bachelorettes, a graduation, a family trip, four "quick" work things that are never quick, and a calendar that somehow filled itself before June even started. Nobody asked if you were ready. Summer just... arrived. Here's the thing nobody says out loud:
the busier it gets, the more you end up tolerating.
The underwear that rides up at the rehearsal dinner. The bra you keep adjusting under your sundress. The quiet, constant low-grade discomfort you've stopped noticing because you've got bigger things to deal with. You push it aside. You're good at that. But you shouldn't have to be. The best thing you can wear into a packed, sweaty, beautiful, chaotic summer is something you completely forget about. Not because it's invisible — because it actually fits.Because it's holding you right.
Because you get to the end of a 12-hour wedding day thinking about how good the night was, not how much you can't wait to take off your bra. That's not a luxury. That's the baseline. This summer, stop letting your underwear gaslight you into thinking discomfort is normal. The summer's yours, Team EBY
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