3 things that were quietly working against me...👀
When I finally started paying attention to the details (not obsessing, just noticing), I found three patterns that were keeping me stuck. And I hear the same ones from women in our community every single day.
1. My weekends looked completely different than my weekdays.
Monday through Friday I was so consistent. Prepped meals, water, on a schedule. Then Friday night would come and I'd loosen up. Dinner out, a couple drinks, a more relaxed Saturday and Sunday where I wasn't really paying attention.
I didn't think it mattered because it was "only the weekend." But those 2-3 days were quietly undoing most of what I'd built during the week. Not because I was binging. Just because I stopped paying attention and the calories added up way faster than I expected. That's not to say we can't enjoy our weekends, but not planning for it is where things get off track.
2. Little bites and snacks were adding up more than I knew.
A few bites of my friends snack. Handfuls of crackers while I made dinner. The creamer in my coffee. Some chocolate after dinner.
None of it ever felt like it counted. But when I actually added it all up one week, those little moments were contributing an extra 300-400 calories on some days. I had no idea. I think most women don't.
3. I wasn't eating nearly enough protein.
This was the big one. I was eating plenty of food, but when I looked at the breakdown, I was getting maybe 50-60g of protein a day. For my body and my goals, I needed more than double that.
That meant I wasn't staying full between meals (which led to more snacking), I wasn't supporting muscle, and my body composition wasn't changing even when I did lose a few pounds.
Nobody ever told me to think about protein specifically. I was just thinking about calories and "healthy choices." That missing piece changed everything.