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What's Going Right: Dr. Paul Conti On Self-Sabotage, Trauma & Why Being Hard On Yourself Is Slowing You Down

Rich is joined by Dr. Paul Conti to discuss self-sabotage, boundaries, and what's going right with you; plus a giveaway of his new book.


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For centuries, philosophers, theologians, and physicians have all tried to answer the same question: what does it mean to live a good life?

Modern psychiatry took up that question and proceeded to narrow it. Instead of asking what's working in a person, it asked what was wrong. Symptoms catalogued. Diagnoses multiplied. The result is a field fluent in pathology, and far less fluent in flourishing.

My guest today is Dr. Paul Conti, a Stanford and Harvard-trained psychiatrist and author. Back for his second appearance (ep. 705), Paul is here to flip the script on a field he says has spent the last century polishing the hood instead of looking at the engine. Instead of focusing on what's wrong with us, he's asking the more generative question: what's going right?

I've known Paul not just as a guest but as a patient. A few years back, I sat in a room at his clinic in Portland and confronted some of the narratives I'd been carrying about my childhood. That experience didn't fix me. But it gave me something more useful, a way of understanding myself that moved me from blame into agency.

That same approach sits at the heart of his new book, What's Going Right: A Powerful New Method for Optimizing Your Mental Health. It's less a self-help manual than a blueprint for becoming a friend to yourself.

Today, we discuss:

  • The Three Human Drives & Why Modern Psychiatry Missed One
  • The Structure of Self: Function & the "I"
  • Compassionate Curiosity & Piercing the Veil of Denial
  • Self-Sabotage, People-Pleasing & Chameleonic Adaptation
  • When Self-Awareness Becomes Its Own Prison
  • The Hamster Wheel of Never Enough
To read more and listen, click here. For those who prefer a visual experience, the conversation is available on YouTube. As always, the audio version streams wild and free on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. 

Giveaway: Win a Copy of What's Going Right

We're giving away 5 copies of Dr. Paul Conti's new book, What's Going Right: A Powerful New Method for Optimizing Your Mental Health.

Drop your info in the form to enter. Deadline is Friday, May 22nd. No purchase necessary. See the Official Rules and our Privacy Policy.

Big thanks to Paul for the generous offer!


 
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