All About Sex Clubs.

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June 5, 2024 6:07pm EDT

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By: Natalia Jaczkowski of Kinks and Coffee

Dip - Plum

$49.00

Dip into deeper pleasure with the latest toy from Dame! Dame is a sexual wellness company that was founded in 2014 by a sexologist and engineer duo. The brand has become known for its people-centered research and educational initiatives touching all things sex and pleasure. This work feeds into the design of their pleasure products, the very latest one being the Dip. This affordable, ergonomic and intuitive toy is designed to be used for both external and internal stimulation. If you’re someone who enjoys shallow penetration and G-spot massage, this toy is a great fit for you! And If penetration is not for you, don’t fret because you can use Dip to please the head of the clitoris, nipples, perineum, frenulum of the penis, outer anal sphincter, or any other erogenous zone that craves contact. There’s just one button to control the device. Use it to turn it on and off and to cycle through the five, rumbly vibration modes that will mesmerize you.

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Apothecary by TANTUS - Spanking Cream - Leather Scent - 8 oz.

$34.99

Elevate your erotic impact play with this specialty spanking cream by Tantus’ Apothecary! This cream is designed to intensify the stinging and burning sensation that one feels from the slap of a hand or BDSM tool. This luxurious cream, formulated with aloe vera and shea butter, glides smoothly onto the skin with a silky soft finish. The scent has a sophisticated top note of leather and seductive bottom note of tobacco. This is a cruelty free cream, so it’s a great option for vegans who don’t use leather BDSM tools but who enjoy the smell of leather. It’s also 100% free of dyes of colours, parabens, glycerin, sugar and phthalates - ingredients which can irritate the skin easily. To use this cream, simply apply a generous amount to the desired spanking area, massaging it gently into the skin, and then begin to apply impact in that area. Enjoy experiencing deeper S&M delight with this spanking cream!

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What do I wear?

How do I act?

Will I feel pressured to participate?

These are some of the common questions people have when thinking about visiting a sex club for the first time. Many people are curious about sex clubs, but feel intimidated about actually entering one – worrying about potential intense expectations that they may be subject to. Of course, there are protocols in place at sex clubs to ensure the safety of the guests, but as long as you follow them you will find that sex clubs are about relaxing and engaging in some wonderful adult fun!

What is a sex club?

A sex club is a venue where consenting individuals and couples can socialize and sexually engage with other guests. These clubs often have different areas for socializing, dancing, and sexual activities. Many sex clubs offer themed party nights for guests to explore specific sexual fantasies. The rules of these clubs can vary, but there are always safety measures in place to protect guests.

Are sex clubs legal in Canada?

Yes, sex clubs are legal in Canada as long as they are operating as private members clubs. This means that each person entering the venue must first become a member of the establishment, agreeing to the venue rules.

Historically, sections 210-211 of the Criminal Code of Canada prohibit the operation of a “bawdy house” (a place kept, occupied or used for the purpose of prostitution or act of indecency). However, the Supreme Court of Canada struck down these provisions in 2013, leading to the enactment of Bill C-36 (Protection of Communities and Exploited Persons Act) in 20214, which shifted the focus to penalizing the purchase of sexual services. Section 174 of the Criminal Code addresses acts of public indecency. According to this section, it is an offense for anyone to willfully commit an indecent act in a public place.

In Canada, sex clubs avoid the risk of public indecency offenses by enforcing membership policies so that sexual activities are occurring in private rather than public settings. Membership policies typically include agreements or contracts that outline acceptable behaviour within the club and involve a membership fee.

What is the etiquette of attending a sex club?

Each sex club has its own set of rules and etiquette guidelines to ensure a respectful and enjoyable experience for all guests. A fundamental principle among sex clubs is consent. All interactions must be consensual and sex clubs often have staff to monitor interactions and behaviours. Many clubs prioritize the privacy and anonymity of their members and guests, and therefore prohibit the use of phones and other recording devices. Some clubs have other safety and hygiene measures in place, such as the provision of safe sex supplies. The dress code from sex club to sex club can vary broadly, anything from casual to fetish wear. Most sex clubs, in Canada and abroad, have a website which clearly states their rules.

In the next release of this newsletter series, we will share some reasons for why some people enjoy attending sex clubs and provide a shortlist of sex clubs in Ottawa and other nearby cities.